Saturday, August 1, 2020

Geek My Homework

Geek My Homework When my son started struggling to start chores after school, we created a checklist for each task he was to complete. The checklist included my expectations for each chore, the items he would need to complete the chore (broom, sponge, etc.) and how much time might be needed for each task. Then he came up with his own plan of when the chores would be completed. Taking ownership of the tasks and knowing what was expected reduced our arguments and my complaints. For classrooms, having systems in place when the teacher is unavailable are often very valuable for the student who gets stuck. For example, share it is okay to ask another student for assistance or write down a question for the teacher to answer later or check a notebook for ideas. Creating a topic book for a student who struggles to come up with ideas in writing or having a strategy page for the student who forgets the steps in multi-step math problems is often very helpful. First, stifle the thought that the student is lazy or doesn’t care about his or her work. In younger children, this is often expressed as tears or acting out while in adolescents, there may be slamming doors or outright lying about the task being completed. If you struggle to stay focused when doing your homework, challenge yourself to be like Nike and “Just do it! ” Set a timer for the amount of time you think you will need to do an assignment and challenge yourself to beat the timer. You may be surprised at how quickly you can finish your homework when you are focused. While he still needed the occasional nudge, he learned how to start tasks on his own without a lot of excuses or tears. Perhaps the most important step in making tasks feel less intimidating is breaking the task into smaller parts. For the student who seems to wait until 11pm the night before a big test to study, help him break down the unit into 15 minute study blocks for several nights. If a third grader has a difficult time writing her three paragraph essay, have her draw the topics she wants to discuss. ” ask the question differently, “Are you a bit overwhelmed about where to start? ” or “What do you think is making this assignment so difficult to start? ” Try to ask questions that need more than a “yes” or “no” answer. Not certain of where to start, they put off the task as long as they can. As they realize more time is passing, they become more and more anxious and eventually a sense of inevitability is created ~ I can’t do this task. Then have her arrange them in order of importance and write captions underneath. Find a starting place that does not generate a lot of stress and build from that foundation. In addition, help a child or teen create visual cues that will help with starting a project. Many families use erase boards in the kitchen or paint a wall with chalkboard paint and create daily schedules. In addition, we are happy to work with families in brainstorming ideas and strategies for children and teens who are bright, capable, and intelligent, but are struggling with the demands of school. We have several wonderful “coaches” who can help students set up systems, create strategy sheets, and provide successful study tips. You spend a lot of time each day waiting…waiting for teachers to take attendance, for classmates to settle down, for your bus to come, or for appointments. Maybe you can get three math problems done while your teacher takes attendance. Perhaps you can do your science homework on the bus ride home. A few minutes here-and-there can quickly add up to 1 or 1.5 hours of free time later in the evening. Many teachers would agree that the number one reason students fail classes is due to missing homework. There are also several websites who have good strategies and ideas; the National Center for Learning Disabilities and LD Online are two excellent sites with additional links. Finally, with the student, create a plan of how a task will be done. Creating excuses for homework lowers your grades and encourages a very bad habit for your future. As a classroom teacher, I used to hear excuses from a few students every morning about why they did not have their homework. Well, it did in Brentwood, even if it took parental pressure. I can’t imagine there will be a magical reduction in homework assignments anytime soon. I don’t expect teachers to drastically curtail their assignments, just to occasionally lighten the load. Instead, think differently about how to ask questions. Instead of asking, “Have you started on your writing assignment?

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